Our Story - Update

Update - Wow what a change

I just wanted to add an update to this story as I had written it 2 years ago when my son was in 1st grade. Wow what a difference 2 years has made. I can not stress how it important it is as a parent to research, research, research and become as knowledgeable about Autism as you possibly can.  This has made a huge difference in our sons life. I also think it's important to teach your kids about their strengths and weaknesses so they can learn how to cope at a young age. My son is now able to see problematic situations and excuse himself if things are starting to be to much. Don't get me wrong there are still meltdowns but they are few and far between and usually only happen at home where he feels the safest.

The CPS (Collaborative Problem Solving ) method has allowed use to communicate better with our son and taking his slow processing speeds into consideration has really helped him speak up about how he feels. His insight into how autistic children feel is amazing and he has even tried to help other parents of autistic children better understand their kids. The positive reinforcement has been a major plus and has helped our son regain his self esteem. The other day it was his half birthday and the class wrote the things they like best about my son. Most of them wrote he is smart, funny, and kind. We are so blessed.

Another tactic that has paid off is monopolizing on my son's interests. He has used his love of Minecraft to expand his knowledge of science, physics, engineering and electronics. In addition he has started making instructional videos on Youtube to show his love of Minecraft and Science. You can check out his last Youtube video he made here: https://youtu.be/SVfiQssRfas   It's how he created a meat processing plant after learning how to make a conveyor belt and from what I can tell there isn't any other like it on Youtube. I love how his brain thinks.

I wrote this update to let parents know there is hope - things can get better with determination and hard work on your part. Don't despair and make sure to focus on the positives.