Update - Wow what a change
I just wanted to add an update to this story as I had
written it 2 years ago when my son was in 1st grade. Wow what a difference 2
years has made. I can not stress how it important it is as a parent to
research, research, research and become as knowledgeable about Autism as you
possibly can. This has made a huge
difference in our sons life. I also think it's important to teach your kids
about their strengths and weaknesses so they can learn how to cope at a young
age. My son is now able to see problematic situations and excuse himself if
things are starting to be to much. Don't get me wrong there are still meltdowns
but they are few and far between and usually only happen at home where he feels
the safest.
The CPS (Collaborative Problem Solving
) method has allowed use to communicate better with
our son and taking his slow processing speeds into consideration has really
helped him speak up about how he feels. His insight into how autistic children
feel is amazing and he has even tried to help other parents of autistic children
better understand their kids. The positive reinforcement has been a major plus
and has helped our son regain his self esteem. The other day it was his half
birthday and the class wrote the things they like best about my son. Most of
them wrote he is smart, funny, and kind. We are so blessed.
Another tactic that has paid off is monopolizing on my son's
interests. He has used his love of Minecraft to expand his knowledge of
science, physics, engineering and electronics. In addition he has started making
instructional videos on Youtube to show his love of Minecraft and Science. You
can check out his last Youtube video he made here: https://youtu.be/SVfiQssRfas It's
how he created a meat processing plant after learning how to make a conveyor
belt and from what I can tell there isn't any other like it on Youtube. I love
how his brain thinks.
I wrote this update to let parents know there is hope -
things can get better with determination and hard work on your part. Don't despair
and make sure to focus on the positives.
